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Monday, June 11, 2012
Thursday, March 1, 2012
I Want A Do Over, or Do I? by Bob Valleau
Is your life like a roller coaster -- a never ending ride of
ups and downs with a few sharp turns now and then? When you left home to embark
on living your own life, were you prepared for such a tumultuous experience?
Yet, if you could go back in time and had the ability to change your destiny,
would you?
How many of us wish we had a life "do over"? Oh, some of you would say you are happy at this point in your life, and, as believers, you may quote how we are commanded to be content in whatsoever state we find ourselves.
Still, haven't you ever wondered where you would be if you had the ability to choose your own destiny? I have, and, I must admit, it's scary. I have often wondered, "What if?" And then there are the "could've, should've, would've" possibilities that run through my mind. I know. I live dangerously because entertaining such thoughts border on the edge of plain fiction or total lunacy.
Well, call me crazy for being human and nonsensical. But my wandering mind has never steered me wrong. It has always led me back to the most sensible and logical conclusion: my destiny is not a destination but a person, Jesus Christ. My rambling thoughts have helped me to see how God does not live in our "what ifs." Nor does He live in our "could'ves, would'ves, should'ves." He lives in our here and now, always drawing us closer so we can experience a more intimate relationship with Him.
You see, I'm glad God never gave us the power to chart our own course. I'm glad He wraps our life's journey in a mystery which forces us to place our trust in Him. I'm glad He knows the end from the beginning and only reveals what He has to at just the right moment.
So no, I don't want a life "do over." The only power God has given me is what I do with each day and whom I will serve. In reality, isn't that what our destiny is all about anyway?
How many of us wish we had a life "do over"? Oh, some of you would say you are happy at this point in your life, and, as believers, you may quote how we are commanded to be content in whatsoever state we find ourselves.
Still, haven't you ever wondered where you would be if you had the ability to choose your own destiny? I have, and, I must admit, it's scary. I have often wondered, "What if?" And then there are the "could've, should've, would've" possibilities that run through my mind. I know. I live dangerously because entertaining such thoughts border on the edge of plain fiction or total lunacy.
Well, call me crazy for being human and nonsensical. But my wandering mind has never steered me wrong. It has always led me back to the most sensible and logical conclusion: my destiny is not a destination but a person, Jesus Christ. My rambling thoughts have helped me to see how God does not live in our "what ifs." Nor does He live in our "could'ves, would'ves, should'ves." He lives in our here and now, always drawing us closer so we can experience a more intimate relationship with Him.
You see, I'm glad God never gave us the power to chart our own course. I'm glad He wraps our life's journey in a mystery which forces us to place our trust in Him. I'm glad He knows the end from the beginning and only reveals what He has to at just the right moment.
So no, I don't want a life "do over." The only power God has given me is what I do with each day and whom I will serve. In reality, isn't that what our destiny is all about anyway?
Copyright 2012 by Bob Valleau. Bob has over 25 years of writing experience for the Christian market. He was once named Christian Writer of the Year by the American Christian Writers Association. Currently, he freelances and lives in Texas.
Article Source: http://www.faithwriters.com-CHRISTIAN WRITERS
Thursday, February 2, 2012
Live One Day at a Time by Susan Ferguson
"I am an old man and have known a great many troubles, but most of them never happened." ~Mark Twain
Regardless of age, marital status, or stage in life, we all have our own set of concerns. Parents have a long list of worries ranging from potty training to paying off college debt. Singles worry about traveling life's journey alone. Senior citizens worry about declining health issues. Financial concerns rank high on the worry list, and some families struggle to keep afloat. Teenagers worry about peer acceptance, grades, and choosing a career. The list is endless for every age group.
Worry is rooted in fear and is usually related to a deep concern of what will or will not happen in the future. Worry can keep us up at night and send anxiety levels soaring. Like a thief in the night, worry robs us of our peace and joy.
So much of what we worry about never happens. Worry does nothing to better the outcome of a situation or change the course of action. The distress that accompanies worry may do more harm than the actual thing which we worry.
Some of us are living way below par of what God desires for us. God understands our struggles with worry, and He does not condemn us. Jesus tells us not to worry about tomorrow and live one day at a time.
We are not promised tomorrow. It is important to make the most of every day God gives us. Worry is a waste of valuable time -- precious moments, sunny days, and productive hours -- that we will never get back.
Excessive worry may be a sign that we are moving away from our dependence on God. Prayer and Bible study help quiet our minds and diminish our fears. A daily walk with Jesus is essential in helping to minimize worry. Trust Jesus, for He is trustworthy.
"When I am afraid, I put my trust in You." (Psalm 56:3 NIV)
God makes provision for our future. He walks alongside us, hand in hand, as we make our journey ahead. We are in capable hands. He promises to be with us always, and to strengthen and sustain us during times of adversity.
"The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged." (Deuteronomy 31:8 NIV)
Prayer
Father, many of us are plagued by worry and fear. Replace worry with joy and peace. Replace fear with faith and love. Help meet the needs of families who have college debt and financial concerns. Stretch forth your healing hand to senior citizens and those with health concerns. Bring Godly relationships into the lives of singles. Provide guidance to teenagers and parents alike. In Jesus name. Amen.
Susan Ferguson
Jackson, Mississippi
Article Source: http://www.faithwriters.com-CHRISTIAN WRITERS
Wednesday, January 11, 2012
The Dark Space by Pastor DeChard Freeman
The Dark Space
So
I often wonder if I will ever behold this deep valley of
disappointment, despair and desperation through the rear view mirror of
LIFE… My humanity often screams, “Give up, you will not survive (let alone thrive) so why try?”
My
spiritual self is anemic because I have starved him due to the hustle
of “working for the LORD”, yet I know the feeble amount of time I’ve
invested in my relationship with Him and reading His Word.
I slip into traps I’d normally avoid and shun the people I truly adore. I inflict harm on innocent hearts because my pain won’t allow anyone but me to be cared for.
I try to pray because I hear it’s the right thing to do… Down on my knees-- with empty, void words for I feel I’ve lost my connection with You.
It
seems all of my challenges are far greater than my will, over whelming
bills, sickness and desertion have me wondering if You are even real?
If you are so powerful and You love me best, how can you allow me to suffer and hurt with such unrest? Do you really care for me or is my LIFE for you just amusement? Do you revel in my struggle? Are you concerned about my pain? Or is this all, for You, mere entertainment?
Even if I have not reached the point of suicidal thoughts, I contemplate a new LIFE so frequently, my reality has been lost.
So when the season has lasted so long and cold that I have no expectation of change. When every night I lay down depressed and expect to awaken the same… Then
a beacon of hope or a ray of light appeals to me in the least likely
way, from the words of a friend or a song in worship that seems to
initiate a new day.
A
collision on the interstate that could’ve been me, a child being born
when it seemed unlikely, a phone call from an enemy seeking amends or
just the return of a relative soldier from foreign lands.
Being invited to dinner when the pantry is bare, a hug from a companion you thought no longer cared… All are just ways God makes us aware, we may pass through the dark space but He won’t leave us there.
It is true that the darkest hour comes just before day break and the darkness you’ve endured---a stronger soldier it will make. God’s
allowing you to travel through these tunnels of tearful trials, were
never to break you, only to make you so He remains right by your side.
Yes, at times it’s so dark as you as you try to proceed that you struggle to see Him and follow His lead… You pray the sun shines soon to help you to see, but the sun will not shine until you’ve mastered trusting completely.
And when you do, when you’ve trusted God to the point of no return… When you’ve turned from your grief and self-pity and sought the lessons to learn. When
you’ve determined God knows best even if it means enduring more tests
and that all you endure is still by God’s grace, for we all are
deserving of death.
When you have learned to be grateful in spite of great lack. When you’ve learned to forgive those who have stabbed you in the back. When you’ve lost the drive for revenge and pray for those who hate you… THEN and only THEN…
The SON has your full attention and you know He never stopped shining. Not a minute of your pain was because of His negligence. No, WE only chose to look away and leave behind His radiance. Hallelujah, there all the while He was waiting for our about face… So the glow of His glory would rescue us from the Dark Space.
Thursday, June 2, 2011
The Solution to Being Sick & Tired
by Michelle Lawson
In the past I was the type of person who believed that I was responsible for my life. I accepted Christ at the age of 7 and should have learned to lean on the Lord for all things. However, I went through life believing that as long as I tried my best to do the right thing and make the right decisions, I would have a good life. But looking back, I now know that no matter how much I tried to do the right thing, I am a sinner and will always fall short of His grace.
I thank God for giving me the revelation through life's trials and tribulations - losing my job, an abusive marriage, an emotionally troubled child - that the only way I could be victorious was through Him. God has taught me not to feel ashamed that I need His help, as well as the help of others, to survive. And I am blessed to say that today I live a victorious life. I have a job, I left my abusive husband, and my child is so much better now. This article is for those of you out there who feel like there is no way out of your depressed existence.
Have you ever woken up after tossing and turning in bed all night long and thought to yourself "I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired?" Don't feel depressed and defeated about your current situation. No matter what you are going through, God is the answer.
Have you been unemployed for more than 6 months and it seems like you are never going to get another job? Or are you in an abusive relationship and are afraid of leaving? Or maybe you are an alcoholic, drug or food addict who feels overpowered by your addiction? Whatever your current crisis, I am glad to tell you that I know the solution - God. It is just that simple. Only through God can we overcome our trials and tribulations. No matter how much we try on our own to make positive life changes, the only way to be truly victorious is with God's help. Don't feel ashamed or mad at yourself that you cannot overcome life's crisis without His help.God wants us to depend on Him. In fact, that is what God intended.
Tired of being sick and tired? Here are a few verses that may help you:
It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect. Psalm 18:32
Look to the LORD and his strength; seek his face always. Psalm 105:4
I have told you these things, that in me you may have peace. In the world you have oppression; but cheer up! I have overcome the world. John 16:33
In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all things acknowledge him, and he shall direct your way. Proverbs 3:9
Looking for other inspirational verses. Click here for other Bible Verses for Encouragement.
New Life Today
How can you have a New Life Today when you are sick and tired of being sick and tired? It may not be easy, but through God we can begin to start a new life of victory, rather than defeat. What God has told me to tell you is that the change begins with Prayer. Praying is the one time when you speak directly to God, and He speaks to you.
Looking for change in your life? Stop reading this article right now, and Pray. Pray for God's grace and mercy. Pray that God gives you the strength you need to make a change. Pray that God will give you guidance about what you need to do to change your life.
Don't just stop with prayer, though. You must take action after prayer before anything will happen. In order for God to bless you, you have to give God something to work with. Unemployed? When was the last time you updated your resume or asked someone if they could help you find a job? Or maybe you're unemployed because God has a purpose for your life that you have been refused to fulfill? Are you being abused? Even if you decide not to leave right now, you can take action - call a domestic violence hotline or seek out domestic violence counseling. For those of you with an addiction to drugs or alcohol, consider calling a treatment center. Addicted to food? Why not take a 20 minute walk today or eat 1 -2 more servings of fruits or vegetables today.
The journey of change starts with the first step. In order to get a New Life Today, we must have faith in God and believe that God will bless us in our mess if we Pray, Receive His guidance and then take Positive Action. As Psalm 37:3-5 proclaims, "Trust in the LORD, and do good; so shalt thou dwell in the land, and verily thou shalt be fed. Delight thyself also in the LORD: and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart. Commit thy way unto the LORD; trust also in him; and he shall bring it to pass."
In the past I was the type of person who believed that I was responsible for my life. I accepted Christ at the age of 7 and should have learned to lean on the Lord for all things. However, I went through life believing that as long as I tried my best to do the right thing and make the right decisions, I would have a good life. But looking back, I now know that no matter how much I tried to do the right thing, I am a sinner and will always fall short of His grace.
I thank God for giving me the revelation through life's trials and tribulations - losing my job, an abusive marriage, an emotionally troubled child - that the only way I could be victorious was through Him. God has taught me not to feel ashamed that I need His help, as well as the help of others, to survive. And I am blessed to say that today I live a victorious life. I have a job, I left my abusive husband, and my child is so much better now. This article is for those of you out there who feel like there is no way out of your depressed existence.
Have you ever woken up after tossing and turning in bed all night long and thought to yourself "I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired?" Don't feel depressed and defeated about your current situation. No matter what you are going through, God is the answer.
Have you been unemployed for more than 6 months and it seems like you are never going to get another job? Or are you in an abusive relationship and are afraid of leaving? Or maybe you are an alcoholic, drug or food addict who feels overpowered by your addiction? Whatever your current crisis, I am glad to tell you that I know the solution - God. It is just that simple. Only through God can we overcome our trials and tribulations. No matter how much we try on our own to make positive life changes, the only way to be truly victorious is with God's help. Don't feel ashamed or mad at yourself that you cannot overcome life's crisis without His help.God wants us to depend on Him. In fact, that is what God intended.
Tired of being sick and tired? Here are a few verses that may help you:
It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect. Psalm 18:32
Look to the LORD and his strength; seek his face always. Psalm 105:4
I have told you these things, that in me you may have peace. In the world you have oppression; but cheer up! I have overcome the world. John 16:33
In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all things acknowledge him, and he shall direct your way. Proverbs 3:9
Looking for other inspirational verses. Click here for other Bible Verses for Encouragement.
New Life Today
How can you have a New Life Today when you are sick and tired of being sick and tired? It may not be easy, but through God we can begin to start a new life of victory, rather than defeat. What God has told me to tell you is that the change begins with Prayer. Praying is the one time when you speak directly to God, and He speaks to you.
Looking for change in your life? Stop reading this article right now, and Pray. Pray for God's grace and mercy. Pray that God gives you the strength you need to make a change. Pray that God will give you guidance about what you need to do to change your life.
Don't just stop with prayer, though. You must take action after prayer before anything will happen. In order for God to bless you, you have to give God something to work with. Unemployed? When was the last time you updated your resume or asked someone if they could help you find a job? Or maybe you're unemployed because God has a purpose for your life that you have been refused to fulfill? Are you being abused? Even if you decide not to leave right now, you can take action - call a domestic violence hotline or seek out domestic violence counseling. For those of you with an addiction to drugs or alcohol, consider calling a treatment center. Addicted to food? Why not take a 20 minute walk today or eat 1 -2 more servings of fruits or vegetables today.
The journey of change starts with the first step. In order to get a New Life Today, we must have faith in God and believe that God will bless us in our mess if we Pray, Receive His guidance and then take Positive Action. As Psalm 37:3-5 proclaims, "Trust in the LORD, and do good; so shalt thou dwell in the land, and verily thou shalt be fed. Delight thyself also in the LORD: and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart. Commit thy way unto the LORD; trust also in him; and he shall bring it to pass."
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